The "bird test" is going viral on TikTok as a way to assess the health and longevity of a relationship. But the driving theory behind the test isn't new — it's backed by research from one of the leading family counseling groups in the country, the Gottman Institute.
John Gottman who co-founded the Gottman Institute, tested the importance of "turning toward," the driving theory behind the bird test, in research he conducted on newlyweds.
"At the six-year follow-up (after the wedding), couples that stayed married turned toward one another 86% of the time," according to the Gottman Institute. "Couples that divorced averaged only 33% of the time."
In fact, some couples therapists say that "turning toward" is their No. 1 tip for maintaining a healthy relationship. And the "bird test" is designed to measure just how tuned in you are to your partner.
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