  If Valentine's Day has you thinking about finding love, the holiday could be a good motivation to start.
One basic rule is to look up from your phone. Good men and women are everywhere — if you're looking, said Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy in Chicago. She's amazed people often complain they don't meet anyone, but then go out and keep their heads down the entire time, staring at their devices.
Wherever you are, be present and look around the room to see who is looking at you. Make three seconds of eye contact with the cute stranger and smile, she advised.
Follow the link to discover more rules to find love, including why you don't have to feel instant sexual attraction.
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