| Sex therapists recommend "simmering" to help cultivate the right kind of erotic climate in a relationship. Simmering means taking a quick moment to feel excited with your partner — even under conditions where it's not really practical to go any further — for no reason at all, except that it feels good. Instead of kissing your partner goodbye in the morning, why not simmer them goodbye? Hold them close for a bit longer than usual -- just one minute to simmer on the way out the door. The payoff in good lovemaking later can be dramatic. |
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